If you’ve been getting multiple harsh comments of how anti-social you are, there’s probably a good chance that your behavior is the primary problem. Well, you might say that you are perfect just the way you are, however, being perfect in your own sight doesn’t mean you are perfect in other peoples sight as well.
Perhaps, it is time for you to think introspectively at how you treat others. If you do realize that you a problem then it’s good to take this advice to heart…
9 WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU
STOP what you’re doing
LOOK Make and maintain eye contact
LISTEN Pay attention to what is said
ASK appropriate questions
RESPECT other opinions even if you don’t agree
SMILE to show warmth and friendliness
USE the person’s name
TALK about interesting things
PRAISE the person
These simple steps say: I am glad to be with you. I want to connect with you and have a positive interaction. Emotions are contagious. If you’re happy and pleased to be in another’s company, that person is going to feel the same about you.
BOTTOM LINE: We instinctively like people who like us. We appreciate and support people who make us feel important.
If you only remember 1 of the 9 steps, make sure it’s #9.
THE LAW OF PRAISE
What you praise increases. Dwell on, focus on, talk about the negative and you will see more of it. Focus on the positive, and you will see more of that. Look for the good in people, praise it and you will call forth the best in them. And they will love you for it!
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